Tuesday, September 30, 2008
I'm not one to win anything, but this past week I was on uberkool erica's blog and entered her "where am I" contest - and what do you know? I WON! Looky and see what I won! An adorable print of "live your poem"! Go check her stuff out - she's hip, kool and way talented!
Thursday, September 25, 2008
My wish for my daughter -
- That you never loose your sense of adventure
- That you never loose your zest for life
- That your dreams come true - don't stop dreaming
- That your happiness far outweighs your sorrows
- That you laugh daily
- That you surround yourself with friends that support you and encourage you to grow
- That you find love
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
I've been seeking clarity lately...been in such a fog for such a long time. Good news is that I finally realize that I'm in a fog! Perhaps I'm on the right road now?!?! Anyhoo, I've been reading a lot of books/blogs on creativity and being true to yourself. One of my faves is Kimberly Wilson aka hiptranquilchic. She has opened up a whole new world for me - and one such tidbit shared is this Manifesto from Z.B.A.
- It's okay not to know. It's okay to be vulnerable. No one has all the answers. We value and learn from the questions and the asking.
- We are learning to appreciate the mystery and sacredness of our lives and the mystery and sacredness of life.
- Life is short. There is no escape from old age, sickness, and death. Death is a great teacher. Recognizing the shortness of our lives provides motivation to live fully in each day and in each moment.
- We understand the importance of taking regular quite time for ourselves. Through reflection and by slowing down we develop an appreciation for life and we increase our capacity for understanding.
- We are learning to trust our inner wisdom. Our bodies and minds are amazing, unexplainable, and unfathomable.
- It's okay to be uneasy, to be uncomfortable, to grieve, to feel pain. Recognizing when something is off, feeling the depth of loss, experiencing pain, is the first step toward change and growth.
- Practice active listening - listening deeply to yourself and to others. Listen to others without formulating your own ideas. Listen to yourself before speaking.
- We all seek balance in our lives - balancing work and family, balancing our inner and outer lives, balancing what we want to do and what we must do.
- We are learning that we can be fully ourselves in all situations - at work, as parents, as children, as friends, as lovers.
- Being ourselves at work is vital to our health and happiness. Our time is too valuable to sell, at any price.
- Each moment is precious. In every moment we have an opportunity to discover, to grow, to speak the truth.
- Each moment is ordinary. In every moment we can realize we are fine, just as we are. Nothing else is needed.
- We appreciate what is paradoxical. What may at first seem contradictory or beyond our understanding may be true. After all, who is it that is breathing? Who is it that dreams? How is it that these hands effortlessly glide along this keyboard?
- Age is a state of mind. We have the opportunity to grow to be more like ourselves every day.
- Developing intimate relationships is a vital part of our lives and our development. Intimacy requires openness, honesty, and vulnerability.
- Real, honest open communication is highly valued - and takes real skill and effort.
- When we slow down and learn to trust ourselves, joy arises naturally.
- When we slow down and learn to trust ourselves, creativity arises naturally.
- Self-knowledge and understanding require persistence and perseverance. Developing awareness and balance is an ongoing, unending process.
- Self-knowledge and understanding require discipline. Whatever path we take requires structure, guidelines, and feedback.
- Self-knowledge and understanding require courage.
- Diversity is essential. Ourdifferences enrich ourlives. There is no "other," just as our right hand is not a stranger to our left hand.
- A simplerule to follow is do good, avoid harm. Of course, this is not simple or easy.
- There are many paths and many practices toward developing awareness and personal growth.
- Our everyday lives and activities provide fertile ground for developing growth and understanding.
- We can learn to appreciate the gifts we've received from our parents and to forgive them. We understand on a deep level all we have received from the generations that have come before us.
- We feel a deep responsibility for our children and for the generations that will come after us.
- We can all act as change agents. We can choose to take action in improving and healing our environment and our society. There is no shortage of issues to address, of healing to take place.
- We are all change agents on a personal level - we either create healing amongst those we live and work with or we create stress.
- We can choose to act as change agents in relation to our communities.
- We can choose to act as change agents in relation to our society or on a global level.
- Everything we hold as dear will one day change and disappear. Every business that now exists will one day cease. Every person now alive will one day die.
- At a deep level, we realize that we are neither in control nor not in control Our task is to paddle to boar, with awareness and integrity. The flow of the river is outside our doing.
- We all have the power to find peace and happiness in the midst of change and impermanence.
- We have the power to heal ourselves, our communities, and our planet.
Whew! That was a doozy! I'm still trying to wrap my mind/emotions/spirit around these points, but they ring true to my deepest desires of where I want to be within myself.